Page-QA-SIAP06

Many people wonder if what they experienced was “enough” to be considered trauma. People often discount events that are traumatic. Trauma is specific to each individual because trauma is the…

Yes, something that doesn’t seem “that bad” can be traumatizing. For instance, a child who’s emotional needs are ignored may think it wasn’t “that bad” because they weren’t beaten or…

It’s hard to know what counts as trauma and what doesn’t when people talk about “big T” and “little T” traumas or when people tell you your experience wasn’t a…

Yes, witnessing violence or abuse, especially against someone you love, can be traumatic. Complex trauma is trauma that develops from repeated, ongoing, or inescapable experiences and changes how a person…

It can sometimes feel wrong to call emotional neglect trauma because it doesn’t look violent or overwhelming. When we think of trauma, we often think of physical violence. Neglect is…

Many people who experienced emotional neglect describe their childhood as “fine.” Some parts of your childhood may have been okay. The absence of overt abuse does not mean emotional needs…

One reason you may not have clear memories of emotional neglect is that you may not realize some of your experiences were neglectful. If those experiences felt normal to you…

Many people think trauma must come from a single overwhelming event. In reality, trauma can also develop slowly through repeated experiences that continually overwhelm the nervous system. When a child…

Yes. Trauma is not limited to overt abuse. A consistent lack of emotional attunement—when caregivers fail to notice, understand, or respond to a child’s emotional state—can significantly shape nervous system…

Parentification happens when a child takes on emotional or practical responsibilities that belong to adults. If you became the caretaker, mediator, or emotional stabilizer in your family, your nervous system…