Why Some Alters Oppose Healing in Dissociative Systems

An exploration of why different alters in a dissociative system may fear or oppose healing, and why understanding those concerns supports safer recovery...

Why Healing from Trauma Can Feel Messy

A trauma-informed look at why healing is often messy and nonlinear, and how misunderstanding this can lead to unnecessary shame or self-doubt...

Why Protectors Often Oppose Healing in Dissociative Systems

An exploration of why protectors often oppose healing in dissociative systems, focusing on safety, predictability, and fear of change rather than resistance or sabotage...

Values Instead of Goals

An exploration of trauma-informed alternatives to goal-setting, including why values-guided movement can be safer and more regulating for dissociative systems...

Why Making Decisions Is So Hard After Childhood Trauma

Explains why survivors of complex childhood trauma may struggle with decision-making, reframing indecision as protection rather than weakness...

Resetting and Recovering After the Holidays

A trauma-informed guide to using January as a time for recovery and reset rather than pressure, productivity, or reinvention...

A Different Kind of January for Trauma Survivors

A trauma-informed exploration of why January can feel overwhelming for dissociative systems—and how prioritizing recovery over resolutions can support long-term healing...

Why January Can Feel So Hard for Trauma Survivors

An explanation of why January often feels exhausting and overwhelming for trauma survivors after the demands of the holiday season...

Weather as a Trauma Trigger

Understanding weather as an often-missed trauma trigger that can affect mood, safety, and sense of self...