When an Alter Scares or Frustrates You

A gentle guide to understanding confusing or frightening alters by exploring neutral explanations that open the door to compassion, clarity, and cooperation within your system...

The Healing Jar

A gentle, practical tool that helps you notice the small healing steps your trauma brain forgets—and finally see your progress add up...

A Medication for Dissociation? (Healing DID)

A clear, trauma-informed explanation of early research on a repurposed medication for dissociation—and what it may or may not mean for people with DID...

You Didn’t Mess Up: You Had a Human Moment

A short reflection on how recognizing a “human moment” can soften shame and strengthen self-compassion...

A Ceremony for Your Grief

Learn how simple, intentional rituals can help you acknowledge unspoken grief from complex trauma and offer your system a safe place to begin healing...

How to Repair and Reconnect with a System

A compassionate guide to repairing trust with your DID/OSDD system through reflection, direct communication, and consistent follow-through...

Are You Estranged from Family During the Holidays?

A compassionate reflection on surviving the holidays after family estrangement and finding new, safer forms of connection...

From Self-Criticism to Healing: The Power of Neutral Self-Talk

A gentle guide to using neutral self-talk as a bridge from survival thinking to genuine self-compassion in trauma recovery...

How to Reparent Yourself: Gentle Steps Toward Safety, Trust, and Healing

Discover how reparenting can help you meet unmet childhood needs with compassion and consistency, creating safety and healing from within...