Every Symptom Was Once a Solution Part 1

Many people with DID or OSDD feel frustrated by symptoms that interfere with their lives now. In this video, I explore a trauma-informed perspective: many present-day symptoms originally developed as...

Self-Regulation Exercise

In this video, I share a gentle, trauma-informed exercise designed to be adaptable for people with DID or dissociative systems. This exercise focuses on reducing overwhelm and supporting regulation...

Trauma Anniversaries

Certain times of year can quietly trigger trauma responses, even when life feels stable. This video explores how trauma anniversaries work and why they’re often hard to recognize...

Kintsugi and Trauma Healing

What if healing didn’t mean erasing damage—or pretending it didn’t matter? This video explores a different way of understanding worth after trauma...

What Happens When Dissociative Systems Push Healing Too Fast

An explanation of how pushing change without enough internal agreement can overwhelm dissociative systems, leading to shutdown rather than healing...

Why Some Alters Oppose Healing in Dissociative Systems

An exploration of why different alters in a dissociative system may fear or oppose healing, and why understanding those concerns supports safer recovery...

Why Healing from Trauma Can Feel Messy

A trauma-informed look at why healing is often messy and nonlinear, and how misunderstanding this can lead to unnecessary shame or self-doubt...

Why Protectors Often Oppose Healing in Dissociative Systems

An exploration of why protectors often oppose healing in dissociative systems, focusing on safety, predictability, and fear of change rather than resistance or sabotage...

Values Instead of Goals

An exploration of trauma-informed alternatives to goal-setting, including why values-guided movement can be safer and more regulating for dissociative systems...