Why Do I Follow Rules I Didn’t Consciously Choose?
At an earlier time in your life, your nervous system identified ways of behaving or thinking that increased your safety in unsafe circumstances. Your brain looks for patterns and creates…
At an earlier time in your life, your nervous system identified ways of behaving or thinking that increased your safety in unsafe circumstances. Your brain looks for patterns and creates…
Trauma-based survival beliefs are ideas about yourself, other people, or the world that formed as a result of traumatic experiences. These beliefs are not random; they developed based on what…
“Invisible rules” are rules that you developed over time as a result of observing and learning what helped keep you safe. These weren’t externally imposed upon you by others. These…
Trauma “rules” form as ways to stay safe in environments that feel unpredictable or harmful. Your brain looks for patterns and creates rules based on what seems to reduce harm…
Trauma can shape how you understand yourself, other people, and the world around you. When you’ve experienced ongoing stress or harm, your mind and body adapt in ways that prioritize…
How Can Trauma Shape the Way I See Myself and the World? How Do Trauma Rules Form in The First Place? What Are “Invisible Rules” in Trauma? What Are Trauma-Based…
Accepting a DID diagnosis can feel heavy because of what it represents. It often means recognizing that significant trauma occurred and that its effects are ongoing. That realization can bring…
Doubting your DID after being invalidated is a very understandable response. When someone questions or dismisses your experiences, it can disrupt your sense of certainty and make it harder to…
Remembering trauma and still doubting it is a common experience. You might have clear memories and still question whether they were “bad enough,” whether you’re interpreting them correctly, or whether…
Feeling like a fraud about having DID is a very common experience. Many people worry they are exaggerating, imagining things, or somehow “making it up,” even when their symptoms are…